What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 02:21
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Is anyone up to have a little conversation?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
What is your review of working in EY?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
Why don't people like Nickelback?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
When was the first time you felt discriminated against because you were female?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
Why would my nipples hurt when I touch them?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
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Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
39~ What are your love languages?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
What is your favorite position? Why?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
*** Questions About Me ***
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
29- How superstitious are you?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
How old are you? Male or Female?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
*** Random Questions ***
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
If yes, what?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Would you read them together?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Family Relation Age Play
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Any that are a turn off?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
The Ice Breaker Questions
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
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26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
If you win, what will you make them do?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
52~ What are your hobbies?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Please share Did you stop?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
Nothing too Serious
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Any that are a turn off?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***